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6 Tips To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

I have been in more long distance relationships (LDR) than i would like to be in. In fact, all my past relationships had some sort of LDR stint. Whether an ocean in the same country, separated by states or different countries! I am really glad to say that the end of past relationships was never because of distance. *fist pump* Surviving an LDR should be an achievement.

I won't lie, being in an LDR is challenging. It takes hard work, a lot of patience and perseverance, but at the end of the day, if you and your partner are committed to working and developing your relationship. IT WILL BE WORTH IT! I had my frustrations and outbursts when i miss Don so much that, saying i miss you isn't enough or having a feeling of wanting to drop everything and be with him. I promised myself to not get in an LDR again. Done with it! No more! but heh... LOVE! Look at me now, writing an article on LDRs. I am not going to go through trust, love and issues in a relationship. If you are in a relationship, that's pretty much the fundamentals of being in a relationship. LOVE and TRUST. But these two key points play important roles in LDR. You have to love and trust your partner fully to be in LDR (i will elaborate this more in coming posts). 

Here are my tips based on Khaira's experience on surviving an LDR.

TEAM #MK

Been feeling off lately, nothing major, just a little off. Like i needed a pick me up or do something for myself. Its funny because work has been good, my weekly activities has been great (winning at futsal, how can that not be good???), family is good and healthy and girlfriends/relationship have been good as well. I had no reason to feel off, but felt sooo shitty, crappy, emotional and needy. At first, i thought i was going through PMS but no, this is a whole different level of PMS. Then i thought... I am a girl, i dont need to justify WHY i am feeling all of the above unless... people around me are complaining (i hope not). Don told me to do something soulful for myself. Like yoga or tai chi -_-" i told him... ice-creams are good for the souls. It was his turn to -_-" 

Screw diets (for now) I got my long-craved coconut gula melaka (brown sugar) gelato!!!! i swear to god, it is sooooo good. #sogood 

Ice-creams are the best mood swings killer. 

WISH

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The want to drop everything and move, then... reality brings me back. 

:( 

SO MUCH PAIN

The minute i got back from Perth, i went on a futsal binge! Three weeks of being away from my favourite sport, it really did feel good to be back with the boys.

1. Third place for FKS league Season 1 week 10. We played the big fifa court and i was a confused girl.
2. Second place for Apeng's Insanity special. This is where we play 3 games back to back.
3. First place for Thethursdaykick All girls Sunday Special.
4. Did my first handstand and it felt amazing! Didnt feel so amazing the next few days, but really happy!
5. A bunch of mid-20s to late-20s playing against 20 year olds... FKS league vs SholleyFC. EVERYONE in the picture was flat after our games. They are physically fitter than us and definitely have more energy. KIDS! FKS didnt make it to the top 3, haha! Best part about this game was i got best female player and won socks.
6. First place for Apeng's Hari Raya Haji special! - Been playing with them on and off for almost a year and this is my 3rd win with them. #somuchwin

After days of continously playing, you are more proned to injures :( and when you are getting older, your body doesnt recover as fast. I am hoping i can keep this wininng streak for a while, hehe!