25 Things I Hope To Do When We Close The Distance

Here’s a sappy post from a girl who misses her other half. Don has been going through a stressful time at work and I am feeling like the WORST girlfriend ever because I can’t do anything. I can’t hug him to make him feel better. Make him a nice cup of tea to de-stress him. Can’t sit next to him to watch Netflix. I feel so helpless… I can only offer him kind words of encouragement and affection. THAT’S IT! And I know, he needs more than just words. :( I tried to send him flowers, but because he is living in the freaking countryside. There was a little confusion and mix up, he didn’t get the flowers on the day it was supposed to be delivered.

OCTOBER GOALS!

Can't believe September is over and October is here. October is starting off great. I welcomed the month with a much-needed visit to my new favourite hair salon, Number76. I've been wanting to get my hair done for a while now, I'm so glad that I did it! Check it out here. Besides having, great hair, I am going to see Don this month. I am all about well-planned trips, but this time it's pretty last minute that I am going with the flow. Exciting times ahead with monthly goals to achieve below...

CHECK OUT MY PHOTOLOG

Did you die a little inside when you looked the photo above? I DEFINITELY DID. I woke up one morning, sat down at my desk, push up my laptop screen and was welcomed with this sight. Panic washed over me and I started frantically trying to fix the white screen of death, calling Don, calling every mac tech geek friend i know, google and researching how to fix this... I had no choice but to go to the shops to figure out what happen.

5 Racist Things I Have Said To My White boyfriend

I come from Malaysia where it's a melting pot of culture, race, and traditions. A culture integrated of Malays, Chinese, and Indians. Culture clashes often happen, but rarely. When it comes to racism, it's the sort of thing where it's okay for a mother to call her kid "naughty" when they have done something mischievous but NOT okay when other mothers call her kid "naughty". Same for me, it's totally fine for my (Chinese or Indian) friends to call me a stereotype of my race BUT totally not cool if someone else does it. I often forget that Don and I are from two different cultures because we have very similar beliefs, personal goals that have nothing to do with culture. Once in a while, my Malaysian honesty comes out... in the form of foot in the mouth way. Here are five racist things I said to my Australian boyfriend.

20 Things We Did When Don Was in Malaysia

Whenever I have one of those days where I miss Don a lot more than usual, I would look through photos of us together. I have a folder on my phone of photos of us only. It's been a month++ since he was last here in KL with me. Time flies so fast when we're together but move so slow when we're apart. While going through our photos, I realised that I didn't write anything about his trip here and what we did. I was so caught up with missing him after he left that I forgot to blog about his stay here. I had planned months before to write about all the things we were going to do for document sake, but...I forgot. Don's visit to KL was planned months in advance (6 months in advance) to celebrate Hari Raya with my family and me. Hari Raya (Eid) is an annual celebration by Muslim all around the world. It was SO nice to have him here with me to celebrate this festive time and spend quality time together.

I made a detailed itinerary for his visit here, but it all went down the drain. I wanted to give Don the ultimate KL experience, but it was impossible to cover all in the few weeks he was here. It was almost like an Amazing Race itinerary. I forget that we're humans. We get tired and need rest. So, I decided to screw the itinerary and just take is easy. After all, this is not his last visit. There will many other trips to visit more places in KL. We chilled and did what other 'close proximity couples' do. Writing this post is making me miss my man. Oh well! So here's a roundup post of what we did together when Don was in KL with him!