How To Plan A Holiday With Your Long Distance Boyfriend

Being in a long distance relationship has many perks. One of them includes traveling to your partner's hometown or going on a holiday together. When you finally decide on a time to meet or go on a holiday, planning in advance helps! After months or even years apart, you would want to make every moment and second count. Having a good itinerary really helps make your trip easier and save you so much grief (and fights with your partner). Don booked his flight to see me a month in advance. That gave me plenty of time to plan out our trip!

Wearing White Jeans

I toyed with the idea of getting white jeans for the longest time. White pants are very intimidating (to me, at least). You have to have a certain level of discipline and the love for fashion to don white jeans. My fashion style is comfortable and practical (which can equal to basic) but wearing white jeans gives me a sense of sophistication and chic. I stayed off white jeans for the obvious reasons...

#1 - White jeans = disaster in the making. I am a clumsy klutz. I spill everything! I unconsciously wipe things on my jeans.

#2 - I have child bearing hips. I have hips that don't lie. A big booty. White shows them off even more.

4 Things I Hate About Long Distance Relationships After A Visit

Every couple going through long distance relationship will try to convince you that their long distance relationship (LDR) is valid. We're a legit relationship. We're real! I've had many conversations with friends and family that we are real. We try to see the good in our long distance relationship that we  tend to overlook the things we don't like or hate. Don was here recently to visit me after 5 months apart. We had a wonderful time together! The both of us spending this time together here in Malaysia, my hometown brought our relationship, a step closer to where want to be = being together (forevaaahhhh) in the same place. I was so used to looking forward to his visit the past 5 months.  Then being with him 24/7 for a few weeks. It's now back to long distance again. It effing sucks. 

I am going through the "I hate this stupid distance" phrase and below are the 4 things I really hate about long distance relationship after a visit.

Becoming A Morning Person

I often find myself wishing there were more hours to the day, so i can do more things. Things like hanging out with friends and family, finishing up my work, do different kinds of exercise, spend time with Don, etc. I would complain to people around me that I don't have time to do anything because the minute I wake up > shower > breakfast > go to work > lunch > go home > rest/play futsal > sleep > REPEAT. When in reality, I do have time! Work doesn't start until 1030am for me. I am blessed to work (for myself) with flexible time. I waste a whole morning by waking up at 9-930am and only give myself enough time to get ready for work. If I wake up slightly earlier, I can clock in a yoga class, a blog post, make an awesome breakfast or read a book and even have a long morning Facetime session with Don.

#LDRBN Challenge: 30 days of compliments

If you have been following my Blushingkay instagram account, you would have noticed that i am taking part in LDRBN Community #30daysofcompliments challenge. This whole month, Don and I will be giving each other compliments every day! It's definitely a challenge because we want to give sincere, honest compliments to each other. So when you know what that you have to compliment each other every day. You start thinking ahead! Every week we're given different themes. So, week 1 is physical appearance.